Love is the ability to notice the good and unique characters in others allowing ourselves to express our own love for those we feel a kindred spirit, split aparts, soul mates, that mind blowing connection drawing two people closer and closer together.
Aw love, it’s that feeling you get when you meet the right person, you feel as though you can't focus on anything else, your mind is not your own yet completely and utterly in the hands of the one you love, the object of your affection. You may feel powerless to prevent yourself from being silly head over heels in love, even risk making a fool of yourself.
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More on the topic of love by Katie McMurray
Seriously, all jokes aside love is a very powerful human emotion. Is love an emotion? Is love a science? What is love anyway? Let’s get to the bottom of things, yes that’s it, the bottom of the heart!
Could This Be Love?
Many people feel love is a sensation that spontaneously appears when you meet the right person. It’s as if it were magic, poof! The image of cupid pops into mind, a small sort of flying baby with wings and a pouch filled with arrows to pierce the heart of the intended. Those arrows are no doubt dipped in a love potion and delivers that one perfect match created just for you.
The problem with this theory is love can just as suddenly disappear once the magic fades. You do fall in and out of love, have highs and lows and yet there are times when you fall out of love never to return again with that person.
Honestly, the truth about love is simple. Once we learn to stop over complicating it the sooner we will know true love. Love is as basic a function as breathing. Just as we need breathe in our bodies we need love. Love is a vital component to every man and woman.
The Perfect Match
Love is a trait in each of us. As we each have different personalities we also have our own special love type. This is the manner in which we love and have the capacity to love, our own unique love personality if you will. Just as different personalities either clash or compliment each other love types can be either a perfect match or a disaster. Compatibility is the foundation to any long term relationship and the direct link to successful life long partnerships.
The Types of Love
Let’s explore the various types of love. There is romantic love which is deep and intense with passion. Romantic love is hoped to be an unending intimate and sexual relationship.
Then you have platonic love which is a great love of the family variety and often considered a religious form of love which encompasses great admiration, caring and affection.
The studies of psychology suggest love is a cognitive phenomenon of social need.
- Love is thought to have three major components; passion, intimacy and commitment.
- Love requires tolerance and forgiveness.
- Love is compatibility, a celebration of common interests.
- Love is a journey with no two adventures leading down the same path nor any guarantees where it may end.
- Love requires patience and understanding.
- Love means sharing each others joys and sorrows.
- Love gives space and time to be ones self.
When you love someone you’re happy with the many things which make this person who they are.
Love is easy to be around and easy to share. Love makes you feel at home happy and eager to return.
Love is a basic human need so go ahead let your love flow and enjoy all the many possibilities of love in your life today.
Much Love and Success, Katie